Today, I am going to start to talk about the things that I did not talk very much about the amount. I think that is cause for anxiety for a lot of people going into this for the first time, especially your first meeting with the sugar daddy. You do not know if you are supposed to talk about money, if you are supposed to ask for a certain amount, if they are going to make the amount. I do think that everything is circumstantial so I do not want to make blank statement about what the arrangement could possibly be for you. So I will just speak about my experience and what I think maybe the amount should be.
So you are probably going to find your sugar daddy on a sugar daddy dating website. There are so many of them. The one I have been using is sudy. They have some really nice sugar daddies. But I want to say that I have been dating different sugar daddies for a while but not every experience is good for me. So on sudy you can know them a little bit by messaging each other. I think that the first initial meeting is important for both parties. I have done things a little bit unorthodox in the past. I have not always just wanted to do a meeting and have dinner and then arrangement. I would rather just have the arrangement set up. But everyone is different. You have to figure out what is the best solution for yourself.
If you want to see somebody long term, and if they want this arrangement to past a night, please do not accept anything less than two grand. This subject is so touchy because there are many people that will accept much less out of the desperation. I want to say that nothing good comes out of desperation. And you should also do not put all your eggs in one basket, which means that you should have multiple sugar daddies, have different dates set up. I am living in a small town and if you are living in a big city, you should definitely think more along the lines of three grand a month or four grand a month.
Personally, I prefer to date married sugar daddy, and it is simply because even if you stay no strings attached discreet, and if a man is old single, he probably wants you a lot, and he will want the company, companionship. Those feeling can be complicated, and if you do not have these feelings for him, he will probably cancel all your allowance, and your breakup can be very painful. It is always easier to deal with people that know exactly what they want, and those arrangement generally always are good because you are both going into it, and it is mutually beneficial.
I know there are some sugar babies have set amount or the sugar daddy wants to put the bill in his name. I feel it is a bad idea. It can simply get complicated. The sugar daddy and sugar baby experience is more like he pays your bills, and he takes care of you, but I do not feel comfortable with that. What I want is cash money, and I want to feel independent to do what I want with this money. You should not put bill under his name because it just gives him too much power. You should protect yourself, and you should not feel trapped or pressured into this kind of relationship.